Saturday, July 31, 2010

The One About An In-Law...

Apologies blogsters but I've been unbelievably busy with work, which I think will be the subject of my next blog. I also just reread some of my past blog entries. They’re terrible! Maybe it’s because I haven’t defined my perspective... I'll try to work on that.

Last weekend, I spent a considerable amount of time with my family. My mom was in town for a week and both my brothers made an effort to spend time with her and each other. My recently married younger brother brought along his new wife and child. Because both of my brothers were married in non-traditional conventions (read: eloping), I've never really had that period during their courtship to develop a relationship with their wives. And since both of my sisters are single, I've never had to really deal with sibling in-laws. I decided last weekend to cultivate a relationship.

My younger brother and I are an interesting pair with numerous similarities. We have similar humors (his is slightly blonde at times...) and share a passion for reading, bacon cheeseburgers, food in general, athletics and tv shows. I think us being the younger children of five have allowed us to bond in a way unique from the rest of my siblings. If I'm close with my brother, I wondered; how close would I be to his wife?

Turns out Uli's wife is slightly reserved at first yet incredibly sociable when comfortable. We spent last weekend bonding over tv shows (Glee, sytycd, Cupcake Wars) and exchanging stories over great food. I understand that an adjustment is needed when joining another family - especially a close knit unit. But I hope, in time, we're more than just in-laws. I'm interested to see how her personality and character diversify our family for the better. Welcome to the tribe, sis.


  1. I have found that getting new brother -in-laws is a lot of fun. It took a while to get warmed up to one another before their "real" personalities came out. Once they relaxed and felt part of the family it's been great. I know why my sisters love them and know that they love and take care of my sisters and their children. I love them like they are my own brothers and are thankful to have them in my life. You will also love having a new sister!

  2. I wonder how she feels about you.. LMAO.. hahaha JK JK.. I love in-laws, i hate the name though because they feel like they're my family..hope youre doing good.. hellur use your flight bennies and come see me